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Old 12-19-2009, 04:11 PM
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Old 12-19-2009, 04:22 PM
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If i was a female, i am everything i would look for in a man. So, why don't I have a girlfriend?
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Old 12-19-2009, 04:24 PM
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Ive been trying to perceive things from a female perceptive on why I don't have a girlfriend, but I can't come up with anything. The only real reason I can think of is that I'm just one of those "nice guys", so to speak. Usually if I do manage to get myself in a relationship, it never lasts. My last "relationship" ended after a week of being boyfriend/girlfriend. I've never broken up with a girl.

—Let me convey why I think I'd (and have been) a good boyfriend.
1. I'm a fucking maan, and not a limpdick.
I convey my masculinity and I tend to be the alpha male of the group. I am an intellectual person, and I like noting my observations aloud. Other people are sometimes intimidated by my intelligence, but I rarely every 'talk down' to anyone, unless they act in a way which warrants such a response. Despite all of this, I am not cocky or overly-confident. I used to have a real problem with social interactions, and to this day (on occasion), that problem hits me like a wall and I become really quiet. This doesn't happen often, and only those who are extremely keen notice.

2. I'm attractive.
Though I wouldn't say it's true, some people have said I look like a young Tom Cruise (maybe they're just being nice). I'm not saying I couldn't be his brother or something, but I'm definitely not as attractive as he or for instance, Brad Pitt. I exercise three to four times a week and I've got a fairly defined chest area (for my size/build) and when I flex, my abs are certainly apparent. I've got straight, white teeth (I'm quite meticulous about oral hygiene), short "stereotypical" hair (picture for reference - http://img135.imageshack.us/img135/3639/80588523.jpg) and I even have a nice cock. So, what the fuck. I don't think there's any problems here.

3. I'm considerate, and my personality reflects that.
I really do enjoy things that most guys don't. I like cuddling, watching romances (sometimes), and when I sense someone is opening up to me, I'm glad to show them my sensitive side as well. I'm thoughtful of others and their feelings, I don't like making people feel bad — but on the other side of things, I'm not afraid to tell the truth. I'm honest and up-front about things, but I'm not confrontational.

That's all I've got really. I'm sure there are other qualities other's might believe are worth mentioning, but I'd like to keep this topic as short as possible (sorry for the length!).

—Now to convey why I wouldn't be a good boyfriend.
1. I don't know how to play 'the game'. I'm not the BEST at flirting, but I'm getting better and starting to grasp certain concepts.
2. I am small. I am about 5' "4 and 116lbs. (162.56 cm and 52.2kg, I think.) However, I am strong and I do have an attractive physique.
3. I don't have any money.

—Things I've had women say to me:
1. "For the longest time, I wanted to force myself to like you. You're a nice guy and all, but it's just not there." - Girl who led me on for months to believe she was interested in me
2. "You're really sweet, and I'm not sure why I don't want this." - A response when asked why she was breaking up with me. She never came up with a solid reason why.

I would like AnonTalk's opinion on what the problem is and your thoughts on my position.
sigh.....
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Old 12-19-2009, 04:34 PM
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Hahahaha
so he is short and small and has no money, but he has such a good personality!
lmao
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Old 12-19-2009, 04:44 PM
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Here's what girls are attracted to:
1. Status
2. Status
3. Status
Most of the time this means money, and secondarily social popularity and looks
This guy obviously doesn't have any of this shit and it's hilarious
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Old 12-23-2009, 09:23 AM
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Here's what girls are attracted to:

1. Status

2. Status

3. Status

Most of the time this means money, and secondarily social popularity and looks

This guy obviously doesn't have any of this shit and it's hilarious
Money, lots and lots of money, fused with a not too bad looking guy = win.
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Old 12-23-2009, 10:06 AM
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So you guys don't know ANY guys who are good with women and don't have that much money to their name?
Likewise...
You guys don't know ANY guys who HAVE money and are lame with women?
Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan. What are you guys smoking?
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Old 12-23-2009, 01:43 PM
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So you guys don't know ANY guys who are good with women and don't have that much money to their name?

Likewise...

You guys don't know ANY guys who HAVE money and are lame with women?

Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan. What are you guys smoking?
You appear to have misunderstood.
They were saying that women are attracted to status and gave money as the prime example of something of which, in abundance, grants a man a large amount of status.
Sure, there are rich men who are rubbish with women and vice versa but that doesn't stop it being a good example, or the general trend.
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Old 12-23-2009, 02:22 PM
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Old 12-23-2009, 02:22 PM
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LOL at the HSJ tag lines! FTW!
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Old 12-23-2009, 02:23 PM
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LOL at the HSJ tag lines! FTW!
henny
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Old 12-23-2009, 02:26 PM
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So you guys don't know ANY guys who are good with women and don't have that much money to their name?

Likewise...

You guys don't know ANY guys who HAVE money and are lame with women?

Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan. What are you guys smoking?
Its not actual MONEY that gets you hot girls, but what money can get you which makes it much much easier
The hottest girls I've seen are with the richest and best looking guys
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Old 12-23-2009, 03:06 PM
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come on guys... an average chick weighs more than that... which woman does want a guy who weighs less than herself? lol
he should call himself mr skinny
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Old 12-23-2009, 03:07 PM
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where's the hulkster when we need him? we need someone to tell this guy to take his proteins and vitamins
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Old 12-23-2009, 06:48 PM
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Ellleee: Ok, I will give you that, [some] women are attracted to status, amongst other things, and yes money is an indicator of status. The women who go for this particular type of thing above everything else are generally called "gold diggers".
Lefty: I don't know who you hang out with. Granted, I do not live in NY, Miami or LA where I imagine superficiality is at higher levels but I still guarantee there are hardcore motherfuckers in those cities who are broke as fuck but still banging all these rich guys wives cause they know how to break the chick down, period.
In my area I know really rich "high status" guys, both with game and without. They are born into social circles with good looking girls included in the package but to say they are the hottest is complete bullshit. I know broke dudes who kill these guys with "game". One guy in particular I'd put above everyone else, I'm talking blatant orgies and shit, and all he is is a broke as fuck party boy but all the girls find him cute. He ain't even particularly good looking, he's just very "in his own reality" for lack of a better word, and sexual as all fuck.
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